This should not matter at all, but something you can try, is changing the login port to 5999 (in both files) as indicated below and see if it helps.
This will not prevent a Titanium client from logging in.
In eqemu_config
Code:
<loginserver>
<host>127.0.0.1</host>
<port>5999</port> <<<<<<<<<<<<<<
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver>
In login.ini
Code:
[options]
unregistered_allowed = TRUE
reject_duplicate_servers = FALSE
trace = TRUE
world_trace = FALSE
dump_packets_in = FALSE
dump_packets_out = FALSE
listen_port = 5999 <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
local_network = 127.0.0.
auto_create_accounts = TRUE