How long are you waiting before giving up?
The EQ Client has a cosmetic issue where it goes into a "Not Responding" state for a while as it loads into a server.
I'd give it at least a couple of minutes, just to make sure it's really not loading.
You also usually cannot click in the window or press a key on your keyboard while the client is in this state, or it will often crash out without an error message.
Just the way SOE has the client coded.
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