IM an idiot........... forgot to take the <--- out of the address lines like
change:
<!--<address>129.81.73.41</address>-->
to:
<address>129.81.73.41</address>
Assuming 129.81.73.41 is the address your world is running on.
http://www.eqemulator.org/forums/showthread.php?t=23747
CREDIT: Derision Title Developer