moltke24: make sure your server is setup as a public server under variables in your peq database. the error it's given tells me their ip address needs updated in the data base.
requires TCP port 7000 open to connect - verify that your firewall has it open
game requires UDP 1024-65535 to be open outbound, verify
Read:
http://www.eqemulator.org/forums/showthread.php?t=35057