These are my config files for running a localhost server.
login.ini -
http://wiki.eqemulator.org/i?M=Pastebin&Paste=Iq5InHLy#
eqemu_config.json -
http://wiki.eqemulator.org/i?M=Pastebin&Paste=FVFBCFyr#
The guide pretty much covers the bases -
https://github.com/EQEmu/Server/wiki/Windows-Server
You'll want to use this batch file - t_start_server_with_login_server.bat
MariaDB is just a replacement for MySQL .. made by the same guy, I believe?
You can use either the command line console or the included HeidiSQL GUI interface for editing your database.
Beyond that, it's just a simple boot up and login