Here is a link to the playguide:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...akka=PlayGuide
Here is a link to the PEQ site:
http://www.projecteq.net/
And as far as getting EQ to play with the emulator, you need to either buy the Titanium expansion pack, or the Secrets of Faydwer expansion. Either of those will work to play EQEmu though Titanium is slightly more finished than SoF is atm.
Any talking of downloading illegal files is strictly against the rules here. It is a bannable offense, so please do not discuss it at all here.