Can't find a server that fits me

[danxxx]

I'd like to find a server that has custom content, as in quality of life things. Auto scribe spells/skills, teleporters, powerful custom items but not to the point of hitting for millions of damage.

Freedom to follow my own path, not a specific path of progression and gear that everyone has to follow and are all basically the same. Variety. Bots available so you're not forced to box to fight higher level mobs.

Class specific items and limited clickies so that everyone can't do everything. What's the point in a cleric if you're a warrior with a CH clicky?

But I don't want to play on a server that is so customized that I don't recognize anything. Basically I want a vanilla server with custom stuff but not so custom that it makes it seem like a different game. I want to play EQ without the tedious stuff and added extra fun stuff.

It just seems that the servers available now go to the extreme with custom stuff, or extreme vanilla and make it extra difficult.