Im a N00B and I need help

[icethorne72]

First off I am totally new to running a server so let me give a shout out and say thanks for making the process so easy to get started!

Now, I have been trying to figure out how to modify the rules and have been searching the forums but most of the time the information doesn't make sense to me. I want to change it so there are no corpse runs and no xp loss on death. I just do not know how to get to where I need to get in order to edit these rules (if that makes sense). Do I need to run HeidiSQL? If so I am a complete n00b to SQL

Thanks for taking the time to read this