Private Server

[Allairus]

Is there a way to run your own private server that people can connect to over the Internet without being on the server list? I was able to get things working on LAN, but anytime I try to allow people to login over the Internet it does not work unless it uses the default settings and shows up on the server list at EQEmu. Even if there was a way I could control who can access it I would be happy.

I looked around on forums and the posts I found were pretty old. I did read about having to make a different build of the server to allow login over the Internet through your own login server.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.