Sry if i confused you. Kind of a long shot really if your other programs are connecting fine... your setup (if replaced with the correct IP adresses) should work fine. Are you configuring your own adresses though or letting your router (DHCP) configure them for you?
You can try pining your own adress on the network to see if anything is auctually in the way... IE: ping 192.168.2.2, if no responce, then either somethin is blocking it or theres a problem with the IP config.
Also are you getting a connect message in the minilogin window when the second computer tries to connect?
Not sure what programs you have installed, but on this bot computer, i have norton, and their blocking settings are pritty straight forward
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