SOLUTION: It was an overflow problem.

I changed the spell number down to 41850 (changed NOTHING else) and all info is there now including the "grey text"

I had to edit the ID number using Heidi and then change both the spells_us.txt and the dbstr_us.txt

I dont know which 1 of the 3 was killing it but I suspect it was the spells_us.txt as I know the info was coming through from dbstr_us.txt and I could change that while the spell was 45000.

I hope this saves some people a LOT of time in the future only spent like 12 hours trying things to learn this.

THANKS for the help!!.