Ok, i activated my account key and everything, was using the following for eqhost:

[LoginServer]
Host=eqemulator.net:5995

still won't let me past the station name and password thing to see the servers. Going to try one more thing and if it doesn't work I'm just going to play Unreal 2004 until i get any news of a fix.

Make sure there are no extra spaces at the ends of either line and set the file to read only.

figured out what it was...
 

It was my Firewall, turned it off and it worked just fine. Although when I tried the server listed in green, I made an Iksar and after making it I tried to play and it said "zone unavailable" so then i tried a halfling and it disconnected me when I submitted the name. I then tried one of the legends servers listed in yellow, it started me off in tutorial zone which had never happend to me before. I tried using the #level 65 thing like i usually do when trying a new server with a new character, said I couldn't do that. So then I tried jumping into the exit hole to get outta there only to find that it just rezoned me back into tutorial level. I guess I have to find a good server with level command enabled *shrugs*

both servers said patch 6/something or patch 5/something if your wondering which servers I used.