this server on the cloud or in your home?

It's at a friend/Co-Workers, I have remote access too it. He runs several teamspeak and minecraft servers off of it.

I dont have much experience with remoter servers, especially for running something like this. i use a computer at my house where i can see everything thats going on. i wouldnt know where to begin forwarding ports on a remote router even. have you had the server up at and running and playable at all?

All of his ports are forwarded, along with it is set up before the firewall, I appreciate the attempt though man! Thank you