EQEmulator Forums - 1017 Problems connecting to server

I've been reading posts about similar problems for 2 days, and I still cannot figure out how to connect to my own server. I can connect to others, just not my own.
I am using the latest version of the EMU that recently came out, 0.5.0 and have the client patched to the latest. I'm trying to run a public server, but I'm behind a d-link router (not sure if it's NAT capable, which is probably my problem).. In any case, my external ip address is 12.213.232.79 and my internal is 192.168.0.102..

[LoginServer]
loginserver=eqlogin1.eqemulator.net
loginport=5997
worldname=Iwishitwouldwork
worldaddress=12.213.232.79
locked=false

[WorldServer]
Defaultstatus=
Unavailzone=

[LoginConfig]
ServerMode=Standalone
ServerPort=5999
UplinkAddress=
UplinkPort=
UplinkAccount=
UplinkPassword=

REM:--------------Start-----------------------
@echo off

if NOT exist spells_en.txt goto NOSPELL

start zone . 12.213.232.79 7995 192.168.0.102
start zone . 12.213.232.79 7996 192.168.0.102
start zone . 12.213.232.79 7997 192.168.0.102
start zone . 12.213.232.79 7998 192.168.0.102
start zone . 12.213.232.79 7999 192.168.0.102
exit
cls

:NOSPELL
echo You did not copy the spells_en.txt from your everquest directory to this one. Please do so or zones will crash on startup.
PAUSE

REM:---------------END------------------------

# READ README.TXT!

[Database]
host=localhost
user=username
password=password
database=eq
compression=off

### --- This file tells world.exe what computer mySQL is on. Host should
### --- be left "localhost" unless mysql is on a differant computer than world.exe.

.. I'm not really sure what to do now. I've tried pretty much everything I can think of in XP to try and remedy the problem, but I cant make any headway. I think it's because my external IP isnt getting translated to 192.168.0.102 which is what my host computer for the EMU is, on the network. I've also tried substituting localhost, 127.0.0.1, etc etc for 192.168.0.102... can anyone please tell me what I'm doing wrong.. and if there's any way to fix it?