EQEmulator Forums - almost there but need a hint

Ok, I believe I have almost got this monster running on a local lan type setup. Everything is working or appears to be working as posted in the forums. Upon pushing the play button, I get a client disconnected from the world program. No reason, just disconnect. I am running the server and mysql and minilogin on a seperate computer, and I just patched eq, doing a complete file check also. I have started from scratch twice, and I am currently on a brand new install of everything, including eqemu etc. Here are my screenies and config files. If someone could point me in the right direction, that would be great. Generally I am pretty resourceful, but the weekend is nearing an end. Thanks in advance...

eqhost file on remote computer:
[Registration Servers]
{
"192.168.1.101:5999"
}
[Login Servers]
{
"192.168.1.101:5999"
}

here is my 5zones.bat file:
REM:--------------Start-----------------------
@echo off

if NOT exist spells_us.txt goto NOSPELL

start zone . 192.168.1.101 7995 localhost
start zone . 192.168.1.101 7996 localhost
start zone . 192.168.1.101 7997 localhost
start zone . 192.168.1.101 7998 localhost
start zone . 192.168.1.101 7999 localhost
exit
cls

:NOSPELL
echo You did not copy the spells_us.txt from your everquest directory to this one. Please do so or zones will crash on startup.
PAUSE

REM:---------------END------------------------

here is my db.ini file edited though:
[Database]
host=localhost
user=xxxxxx
password=xxxxxx
database=eq
compression=off

here is my loginserver.ini file:
[LoginServer]
loginserver=localhost
loginport=5999
worldname=Mess Test
worldaddress=192.168.1.101
locked=false

[WorldServer]
Defaultstatus=0
Unavailzone=

[LoginConfig]
ServerMode=Standalone
ServerPort=5999
UplinkAddress=
UplinkPort=
UplinkAccount=
UplinkPassword=

Here is the output of world.exe:
[Status] CURRENT_WORLD_VERSION:EQEMu 0.5.3-DR2
[Status] Loading variables..
[Status] Loading zones..
[Status] Loading items..
[Status] EMuShareMem loaded
[Status] Loading items from database: count=26679, max id=68199
[Status] LoginServer.ini read.
[Status] Loading guild ranks..
[Status] Loading addon.ini..
[Status] Loading EQ time of day..
[Status] Reboot zone modes ON
[Status] Deleted 0 stale player corpses from database
[Status] Deleted 0 stale player backups from database
Warning: You need to get laid...
TCP listening on: 192.168.1.101:9000
World server listening on: 192.168.1.101:9000
Connected to LoginServer: localhost:5999
14221 New TCP connection: 127.0.0.1:1097
New zoneserver: #1 127.0.0.1:1097
14241 New TCP connection: 127.0.0.1:1098
New zoneserver: #2 127.0.0.1:1098
Zoneserver SetConnectInfo: 127.0.0.1:1097: 192.168.1.101:7999
14281 New TCP connection: 127.0.0.1:1099
New zoneserver: #3 127.0.0.1:1099
Zoneserver SetConnectInfo: 127.0.0.1:1098: 192.168.1.101:7997
14341 New TCP connection: 127.0.0.1:1100
14341 New TCP connection: 127.0.0.1:1101
Zoneserver SetConnectInfo: 127.0.0.1:1099: 192.168.1.101:7995
New zoneserver: #4 127.0.0.1:1101
New zoneserver: #5 127.0.0.1:1100
Zoneserver SetConnectInfo: 127.0.0.1:1100: 192.168.1.101:7998
Zoneserver SetConnectInfo: 127.0.0.1:1101: 192.168.1.101:7996
28391 New client from ip: 192.168.1.100 port: 4144
Logged in: Local: eqemu
Logged in: Local: eqemu
Client disconnected
Removing client from ip:192.168.1.100 port:4144
65705 New client from ip: 192.168.1.100 port: 4148
Logged in: Local: eqemu
Logged in: Local: eqemu
Client disconnected
Removing client from ip:192.168.1.100 port:4148

Here is my zone.exe output:
[Status] CURRENT_ZONE_VERSION: EQEMu 0.5.3-DR2
[Status] Loading Variables
[Status] Loading zone names
[Status] Loading items
[Status] EMuShareMem loaded
[Status] Loading npcs
[Status] Loading npc faction lists
[Status] Loading NPC Faction Lists from database...
[Status] Loading loot tables
[Status] Loading Loot tables from database...
[Status] Loading doors
[Status] Loading guilds
[Status] Loading factions
[Status] Loading corpse timers
[Status] Loading what ever is left
[Status] Loading commands
[Status] 151 commands loaded
[Status] Entering sleep mode
Connected to worldserver: localhost:9000

I really hate to ask, and have tried not to ask anything yet, but this doesn't give me direction to go on. Searching for client disconnect has not helped so far.