i am a huge dunce
 

ok..this is my 5th time tring to get my own server running. im probly the most idotic girl out there thats tried this and got 5 different problems each new try lol
i am carefully step by step word by word following the instructions but i think im missing alot of obvious things ((big ADD problem here)) and i was wondering if anybody wanted to pair with me on building theirs and we could help eachother along.
Or someone who has built theirs could mentor me and walk me through it on a chat bases, i have about almost every messenger. help would be deeply warshipped about now..idolized even lol

Have you tried the step by step setup video that is posted here?

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Video? screenshots you mean? i have ran all over the place and never seen a video anywhere *dunce*

ok..
 

yea i checked that video out..confusing lol