kicks me back to login screen when i try to log into...
 

its just kicking me back to login screen when i try to log into my own server, im getting absolutely no errors with server setup, im fairly certain my router is configured properly, ive searched all over regarding this and have found nothing...if somebody could point me in the right direction it would be most appreciated

Thats the same with me. i would pick a server with ppl in it. then click play everquest. after a few secs it puts me back at the login screen.

that is probably due to you joining a server thats using a version not compadable with you, try patching and joining a DR6 server, as for me, i am up to date and still not letting me in