Could my problem
 

be that when i click on the server, My Server, that it moves me to login screen when i click because I have a bad compile? cuz nO Errors come up when i run world and zone.exe...

it could be a few things , one would be a router issue. another would be an incorrect version of EQ

no, its not either of those, because everyone who can play on the other servers, it kicks them back, and I ran servers before with this router, thats not the problem either