A couple of questions....
 

Im trying to play using mini login.
I did everything the readme says (multiple times)
I did everything a couple of FAQs here say (multiple times)
and I cant figure out whats wrong.

When launching world and boot5zones , it gives me an error saying

[loginserver] block not found in loginserver.ini
Failed to connect to database: Error; Acces denied for user Dempig...etc

my login server.ini is..

[LoginServer]
loginserver=localhost
loginserver2=localhost
loginport=5999
loginport2=5999
worldname=Evertest
locked=false
account=
password=
worldaddress=localhost

[LoginConfig]
ServerMode=Standalone
ServerPort=5999
UplinkAddress=
UplinkPort=
UplinkAccount=
UplinkPassword=

and my db.ini says

[Database]
host=localhost
user=Dempig
password=( mypassword is here)
database=eq

Ive tried remaking mysql account a few times to make sure i put in right name and pass , and even reinstalled mysql.

Can anyone help?

Do you have minilogin.exe running before you try to run world.exe?

Yes , I also tried doing this like in one of those stickies , but it didnt work.

mysql>GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON eq.* TO someid@localhost
IDENTIFIED BY 'somepass' WITH GRANT OPTION;

Put your username and pass from db.ini in place of someid and somepass

something like:

mysql>GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON eq.* TO dempig@localhost
IDENTIFIED BY 'db password' WITH GRANT OPTION;

This one lets you access databases other than eq, in case you want to have several for switching back and forth:

mysql>GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO dempig@localhost
IDENTIFIED BY 'db password' WITH GRANT OPTION;


Also:
[loginserver] block not found in loginserver.ini
is a bit odd, since you show it in your loginserver.ini

I did put in my real user name and pass when I did that=/

Could I be using the wrong minilogin? I dled one , but not sure if i need a certain one or something to use with 3.4

Well that could be it. there WAS a jun1-minilogin on SF but it was taken off.

So is there no way for me to fix this?

also when i try to connect to other peoples server , i can make a character , and when i push play after i make a char , on the character select screen it will start loading , then boot me to desktop after a few seconds.

Try this minilogin: http://prdownloads.sourceforge.net/eqemu/MiniLogin.exe