Hmm what do I do.....
 

Ok, im getting everything setup, and I run FQAdmin.exe comes up just fine then it says...

Exception:
Access denied for user: 'me@my-ip-is-here.client.attbi.com' (Using Password: YES)

The admin tool wasn't able to connect to database "eq" at host my-ip-is-here. Please go to the preferences dialog and set the username, password, database, and host values.

And I did that, used the same username/password as mysql. Used eq as database, and my ip as the database host. Not sure what else to do? Any suggestions?

Need to set the permissions on user at that ip..

Log in as the root user in the database and execute this..

mysql>GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON eq.* TO monty@localhost
IDENTIFIED BY 'some_pass' WITH GRANT OPTION;
mysql> GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON eq.* TO monty@"%"
IDENTIFIED BY 'some_pass' WITH GRANT OPTION;

You can also replace the % with just the ip of the other server if you want to be a bit more secure about it and replace monty and some_pass with your username and password you want to use to connect with..

mmm k...
 

Im a complete n00b to Mysql. how do I get to that screen to do that? :P

mysql.exe in your bin folder

from a command line of course :)