Possible already set up server?
 

I'd like to host a server on eqemu and well I've tried 7 different tutorials.. local and online but I'm always just one step away and then it all just goes to crap.. so are there any downloads that has everything all set up.. just insert your ip here etc?

just isn't working for me, and I'd love to host a server but I'm crappy at this... even after two months of attempts.

You are attempting to run a server for a game that has been in development by a large team of professionals and is normally run by experienced server administrators. We do NOT provide turnkey solutions. Heres an analogy for you.. it seems like you want to drive in NASCAR or whatever but you don't even know how to drive a stick shift.