Not really sure, but my minilogin server work, and is different in 2 points, maybe will help
1st, apparently, your worldname in loginserver.ini :
worldname=Wolfclaws experiment
But in the xml you did not change it?
2nd, in loginserver.ini too, I don't have account and password, it's empty
account=
password=
To log in, after eqgame is launched, I type mini mini as login password, and it work just fine..
Probably a problem with server name tho, if you change it be sure to change it everywhere (since it's minilogin and nobody but you see it, I suggest you don't change it)
Except that the server is running fine apparently, just need to actually have good server name / password / account settings to play
EDIT : does your window actually say 0 servers 0 client all the time? or once the zones are loaded it says 1 server 0 client??