Ok, in your loginserver.ini, just change loginserver to 127.0.0.1
On eqemu_config, change <local address> to same as <address>
change loginserver host to 127.0.0.1
under the database host change to 127.0.0.1, localhost may work but i use the before mentioned.
And your eqhost.txt file looks fine.
This is what I use and it works. Hope that helps.