Thanks ElBigmac, this thread shouldn't have even been started - at least look at the same thread we're already discussing on this. also, use the search feature on these forums - it is very powerful and will get you answers a lot faster than what we can post.
I took from your subject-line "server to show up on minilogin" ran a search here , and look what I got:
http://eqemulator.net/forums/search.php?searchid=469794
I can almost guarantee you every problem you will have starting out with your eqemu, has already been discussed/solved here on the forums. But if you can't find any solution, we will still try and help.