Hrm, okay, it looks like the DHCP server has an addy of 10.0.0.2 and is handing out IPs on your LAN in the range of 10.0.04 to 10.0.0.15....
As long as you are surfing the internet without issue then I guess it works! Try these settings then (assuming that your EQEmu server is on the 10.0.0.14 machine:
Code:
<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. -->
<address>81.146.63.111</address>
<localaddress>10.0.0.14</localaddress>
....
<database>
<host>10.0.0.14</host>
Also,
double check that the Ports are forwarded to
10.0.0.14