[moydock]

I've seen this problem before, trying to remember what fixed it.
Make sure you have the following in your server config file:
"<!-- Sets the ip/port for the tcp connections. Both zones and console (if enabled). Defaults are shown -->
<tcp ip="localhost" port="9000" telnet="enable"/>"

You want localhost. Also, try disabling any software firewalls/antivirus on the server.