At a quick glance, and not having my files at hand, i *think* in your loginserver.ini
change
loginserver=127.0.0.1
to
loginserver=192.XXX.XX.XX
Also, for a minilogon, in your eqemu_config.xml i think you need to change:
<!-- <address>some.server.com</address> -->
<!-- <localaddress>192.168.11.2</localaddress> -->
to
<address>some.server.com</address>
<localaddress>192.168.11.2</localaddress>
make sure your account in your account table has your 192.xxx.xxx.xx ip updated correctly.
also, make sure you're starting minilogin.exe first. then world.exe first and letting it run until you see 'connected to....', then run the zones.