You don't need Titanium on the server PC. But, you DO need to copy the spells files to the eqemu directory as stated in the server setup guide wiki.
It looks like you are running a current version of the databases that include the newer rules, but you don't have the correct eqemu code version to use the newer rules. You might want to try using emu version 1108 which is the most recent listed on the downloads page.
Also, make sure you sourced all of the database files needed. If you are running PEQ database, you need to have both load_player.sql and the peqdb_XXXXx.sql sourced in. It is all there in the wiki here:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...ka=ws992mysql5
Oh, and the zone table doesn't need anything filled in on the filename column. That is probably the old way it used to lookup zone .map files, but I think it just does them by shortname now.