you may have to use a dns name for the server address and on each machine locally ur using to login u add a line in the hosts file (C:\windows\system32\drivers\etc\hosts) that looks like
Code:
192.168.0.2 host.whatever.com
where 192.168.0.2 is the server local IP. you can setup a dns name at
www.no-ip.com
in your eqemu_config.xml you need to add the <address> and <localaddress> lines right below the short/long names.. in the <world> section.
<address> would have the dns name and <localaddress> would have the internal IP... after you set all of this hopefuly it will work
PS: the dns name should be setuip to use your external IP not internal.