I'm so happy that you're enjoying yourselves!
I got into EQEmu for the same reason a few years ago because I wanted o be able to see the zones I wasn't quite ready for in live. I still maintain and play all Sony games on the all access pass, and it's great to scout out a zone im getting ready to enter on live eq.
As long as exploiting is kept to a minimum, and nothing anyone is doing is bringing the server to its knees... I'm happy with what ever anyone wants to do
If there's any specific items you need, please let me know.