sorry about the double post, but I changed up my eqemu_config file a bit, but it still didnt help, just cleaned it up a little.
I changed it some, it now is:
<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
<world>
<shortname>cmon</shortname>
<longname>workyousucker</longname>
<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. (read: You dont) -->
<address>192.168.1.102</address>
<localaddress>127.0.0.1</localaddress>
<!-- Loginserver information. Defaults shown -->
<loginserver>
<host>192.168.1.102</host>
<port>5999</port>
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver>
<unlocked></unlocked>
<!-- Sets the shared key used by zone/launcher to connect to world -->
<key></key>
<!-- Enable and set the port for the HTTP service. -->
<http port="9080" enabled="true" mimefile="mime.types" />
</world>
<!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. -->
<database>
<host>localhost</host>
<port>3306</port>
<username>root</username>
<password>mypassword</password>
<db>peq</db>
</database>
</server>