If you are playing on SoD with the same directory you were trying to use for EQEmu, that is probably your problem.  SoD uses a ton of custom files and is not compatible with the EQEmu servers.  You would need a separate install directory to play on EQEmu, and it has to be a fresh (unpatched) install of Titanium or SoF straight from the disks. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
		
		
	
	
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