First of all, you are going to need to uninstall Titanium and completely delete the directory for it. Opening the patcher at all like that will break EQEmu for sure.
Second, you need to make sure you are creating a shortcut to eqgame.exe NOT everquest.exe. Third, make sure you are setting the patchme option as shown in the play guide here:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...akka=PlayGuide