This link from the wiki will help you find what files to use from your VS2008 build.
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka.php?wakka=VS2008
I use C:/eqemu for my directory and those 14 files are present along with quests folder, maps folder, etc. Here are a couple more links that should help you.
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/showthread.php?t=29043
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...ka=ws992mysql5