[trevius]

If you are connecting your server to the Public Login Server, then your config here is probably the cause of your issues:

<!-- Only specify these two things if you really think you need to -->
<address>192.168.1.34</address>
<localaddress>192.168.1.34</localaddress>

Note that "Only specify these two things if you really think you need to" basically means "don't set these". :P

Try replacing that with this:

<!-- Only specify these two things if you really think you need to -->
<!-- <address>192.168.1.34</address> -->
<!-- <localaddress>192.168.1.34</localaddress> -->

That will comment those lines back out so they aren't used. See if that helps.