Your eqemu_config.xml file should look like this, filled out with your info:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...rConfiguration
Your eqhost.txt file in your EQ directory should have this in it: Host=eqemulator.net:5998
All you have to do is get your server working, which is the easy part. It's usually login issues that plagued me, but this works great.