My Server Config File;This is EXACTLY how I have mine.
(except for passwords) (LINE FOR LINE - WORD FOR WORD)
<shortname>huppys</shortname>
<longname>Huppys Little Norrath</longname>
<address>192.168.1.100</address>
<!-- <localaddress></localaddress> --> I LEFT COMMENTED OUT
<loginserver>
<host>192.168.1.100</host>
<port>5999</port>
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver>
<database>
<host>127.0.0.1</host>
<port>3306</port>
<username>root</username>
<password>xxxxxx</password>
<db>peq</db>
</database>
eqemulogin.ini file;
[LoginConfig]
loginserver=192.168.1.100
loginport=5999
DumpPacketsIn=false
DumpPacketsOut=false
Trace=false
DatabaseServerName=localhost
DatabaseCatalogName=PEQLoginServerDB
DatabaseUserName=root
DatabaseUserPassword=mypassword
OPCodePathAndFileName=login_opcodes_sod.conf