Ok, sorry for a late reply, been really buisy. Your server.xml shoul be in C:\eqemu\eqemu_config.XML. Right click and open with word or notepad or w/e you have. ** DO NOT EDIT ANYTHING EXCEPT**-
<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
<world>
<shortname>Insert Short Name</shortname> <-This Line
<longname>Long Name Here</longname> <-This Line
And
</zones>
<!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. Defaults shown -->
<database>
<host>localhost</host> <-This Line
<port>3306</port> <-This line
<username>root</username> <-This Line
<password>****</password> <-This Line
<db>peq</db> <-This Line
</database>
*Please get rid of the Arrows and dont copy paste this, it is an example only. Follow this guide to get an exact .XML file, that you can copy/paste.
http://eqemulator.org/forums/showthread.php?t=32980
As far as not being able to #bot summon, I am not for sure. I am unframiliar with Bot Servers, However. From reading previous threads; I do beleive it is caused from a update missing or sourceing incorrectly. I cant give you a diffinitive answer there. Sorry. But I would look at the updates first.
Apoc.