Unless your second PC is connected directly to the internet, it shouldn't be going through the "internet" when connecting.
A good way to verify this is to look at the message in World.exe when connecting. It should say a new connection from "192.168.0.X" or whatever the LAN ip that's connecting is.
Is your server machine running EQ at the same time it's running the Server?
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