I keep reading the OP and really can't see why
people like Burningsoul react so negatively to it. Btw you might want to double check Shards boxing policy.
Should have referred him to EZ, sound like you came from there and failed at the server.
Sorry that you cant box content, you can always go play on P99 where there are no 'evil boxers' to take all your content...
Kayen really hit it on the head, some servers are just not meant to have the big boxers on it, a 2 or 3 boxer that does content balanced around that figure is fine but someone that can come in and box 12-18-24 in that same content break all scaling on that server. SH forums are a interesting read about how boxing has effected the server.
I think it's why EZ does so well and is a personal favorite server for me. Its dummy proof with no skill required. Push buttons <afk> for the longest and win.
As for the OP: I really can't think of to many servers that wont at least let you box 4. What exactly do you want because I can think of a server type for damn near everyone's taste, except PVP which is stupid in EQ.