I share the feeling for this type of server.
I have been making extensive planning (5 years now) for a full custom server (entire world made from scratch), that will allow both solo and group play with no boxing/boting or mercs allowed. New and customized classes, 99% new spells etc.
Now if only I could get some free time to actually make it happen
If things improve for me in RL, perhaps in a year or so, I may have something to show