It seems that your shared_memory.exe is crashing when loading spells, is your spells_new table corrupt or does it have any incorrect values such as an outrageously high ID or and id of 0 or anything that would throw an error and cause shared_memory.exe to crash? I had a similar issue earlier because I cleared my entire loot table so I couldn't log in due to shared_memory.exe crashing before finishing.
Here are the errors related to spells crashing it:
Code:
[07.18. - 13:32:20] c:\eq\source\common\shareddb.cpp (1743): SharedDatabase::LoadSpells
[07.18. - 13:32:20] c:\eq\source\shared_memory\spells.cpp (41): LoadSpells
[07.18. - 13:32:20] c:\eq\source\shared_memory\main.cpp (154): main