Ok, i got it working now

I did not find what credentials you have to put into the loginserver area in the .xml, so that info helpded a lot.
Also, most likely more important, i missed complely that you had to exit that update utiliy in world exe to get it to actually start
Well.. i can log in, i can look around, but i cannot move at all.
Creating a Vah Shir staring in Shar Val, i fall trough the world... Did i break something by executing all update commands from world exe?
Most likely i will start over from scratch anyway,to get better accustomed with the server software