Your missing a table in your character_bind in sql. Rather the table for your character_bind is probobly messed up slightly, Go through the table and check the values based on what the error is popping out. Also id change your
<!-- Loginserver information. DO NOT EDIT -->
<!-- <loginserver2> -->
<!-- <host>login.eqemulator.net</host> -->
<!-- <port>5998</port> -->
<!-- <account></account> -->
<!-- <password></password> -->
<!-- </loginserver2> -->
<loginserver1>
<host>127.0.0.1</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver1>
to this
<loginserver1>
<host>127.0.0.1</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account>XXXXX</account>
<password>XXXXX</password>
</loginserver1>
<loginserver2>
<host>login.eqemulator.net</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver2>
Causes less issues related to logging in to the server.
Also if your logging in from a computer outside of your network on your private login make sure that this is filled out
<address>Your Public IP</address> -->
<localaddress>LEAVE BLANK CAUSES CONNECTION PROBLEMS</localaddress> -->