Hey Tabasco..i found this.
https://github.com/Zaela/eqemu-login-helper
Just extract it, go into the folder in a terminal and type make
Then go into bin and execute ./eqemu-login-helper
Change the contents of eqhost.txt in the Everquest folder to look like this
[LoginServer]
Host=localhost:5998
Keep it running, and then start Everquest with "wine eqgame patchme"
The server list will show up every time