Really this post should be in the support section of the forums. You would probably get more help from them in there. but i'll still help you out. First off this is the link of the win32 Binary files (the exe files needed to run)
http://prdownloads.sourceforge.net/e...2.zip?download
Then from there you will also need a database. go here to get mysql
http://www.mysql.com
After you got all that read the readme files in the win32 binary zip and that should help out. also read this.
http://www.eqemu.net/documents/readme.html
You may need this to if you want to log on to your own server
http://www.eqemu.net/index.php?patcher.
Thats about it. if you want help in realtime then check out the irc server.
http://www.eqemu.net/index.php?irc
la8er have fun