ok this is a whole new set of problems, if you are getting to the server with everyones server listed you are using a eqhost file that points you to eqemu and that will need to be changed to localserver. that file gets changed automaticly when you patch so remember to keep it updated manually. unless you wish to publish yours on the eqemu login server in which case you wont need to run minilogin
I hope that made sence I have been up for a long time now.