please see
http://forums.eqemu.net/viewtopic.php?t=7722
i think i posted this question in the wrong area. as i'm still waiting. notting i do seems to work to fix this.
i get no errors at all when following the readme.html step by step. until i try to login to the server it just isn't listed. the server does show a green light in the taskbar. i'm geussing that means its fine but that wole NOT FOUND thing kicks my butt, any help here would be great.