thanks for the feed back.
I have managed to get the char to log on as a normal user.
It seems that the first char made will always be linked to the first account (in this case the gm account). So even if you log on using the new non gm account, if there are no characters then it will be created under the 1st account name. Maybe this is to do with having only on set of ip addresses /shrug.
I have started my data bases fresh so I can see what is going on with mob damage. It seemed a lot better with new databases (some problem with damage settings on mobs between versions ?). I did notice there was no damage cap though, this is something they put in on EQlive.......I don't think I have ever played a character at this level without those restrictions
Also I imagine the no AC was making the damage seem a bit harsh.
As a non GM there is still no Agro atm on a sleeping mob, I have noticed people reporting this a lot so I guess there is no need to bring it up here as you guys are aware of it.
Also Spell stacking is really up the shit atm too