FOUND IT!!!! Its a trainer:
http://spacetarget.com/games/pc_the_...1.8 +5 TRAINER
If you don't have Superstar, the one below it is for all expansions. Read the readme, it tells ya how to use it. It comes with other cheats also, but I will just use the friends cheat. You need to just meet someone and they become friend, yay!
